Hello, goodbye, begin again
Hello. It’s been a long time since I’ve written here. I’m starting a new project where I will continue to write (I’m very excited about it—more on it below). But, it didn’t feel right starting it before returning here to say goodbye, and closing this chapter.
For two years this was a space where I wrote about navigating life with mental illnesses. It was extremely cathartic and helpful—a way to connect with others about something that felt so isolating. So many of you reached out to me in response to my posts—encouraging and supporting me more than I could have ever imagined. I am infinitely grateful to each one of you. Your support kept me going through dark times. But, at some point, this project that gave me so much life started feeling like a burden.
For several years I felt stuck with nothing to say. I was unable to write or do anything creative because I was undergoing so much stress and trauma. Words lost their magic. I didn’t feel like sharing or being seen anymore. It made me worried that I wouldn’t be able to write again—that the creative part of me was broken.
I tried to be patient with myself. Eventually, after a pandemic and a flare-up of chronic pain forced me to slow down and take care of myself, I was able to start healing. With healing, the creative spark finally returned. Patience, resilience, and the hard work of healing brought a new beginning.
One of the only outlets I’ve had during these past few years has been listening music. When I couldn’t handle movement or visual stimuli or do much of anything, I could still reliably listen to music. It has been a saving force and a way to feel connected to the creative realm. This year I set a goal for myself to listen to a new album every day. Right now I’m ahead of schedule and am up to 160 albums. It’s something that has been giving me purpose and I look forward to it every day. I’m excited to share that my new project is related to this: a (close to) weekly newsletter called Band Practice with my reviews of the albums I’ve listened to. Each week I’ll review at least seven new albums from a eclectic array of genres. There will be bonus playlists and musings on my love of music in general. I invite you to subscribe here if that’s something that sounds interesting to you. I look forward to seeing you there.
Until then, thank you. Thank you for all you have done to support me and for joining me in this space where it was safe to be my full self. I am the happiest and most stable I have ever been, and this space–and the community it gave me–greatly contributed to that.
I used to end each blog post with a song that captured the feeling of what I was writing. This time, as a special sendoff, I’m sharing a whole playlist that I made. I like to make playlists for each season as time capsules for that particular space and time. This one is for spring 2022, and it couldn’t be more fitting for this time in my life. Winter requires patience and resilience; spring brings new beginnings to that which has endured. I tried to make this playlist feel like that. The heavy moments are met with messages of hope–much like dreary spring days are met with breaks of sunlight. There is both grief and celebration, heartache and love—told through an eclectic variety of genres. Overall, I hope you find it uplifting. There are links to both the Spotify and Apple Music versions below. (Fair warning that there are explicit lyrics.)
Goodbye, readers, and thank you once more. Here’s to new beginnings!